2006/08/31
2006/08/30
寻人启事 @Charley
NCLL在哪儿呢?过得怎么样?是不是出国了?在我这儿留个言告诉我一声,或者写信也行charleychang@ gmail.com
今天做了一道所谓的微软面试题,在和别人讨论时发生了争吵,结果是我不对。在争吵中我一直认为自己使正确的,别人没有理解我的思路,而且不让我把话说完总是打断我。事实证明,我是错误的,我的错误在于在一个条件之前做出了一个自己的判断,而这个判断让我提前得到了正确答案。
事后我反省自己的问题,发现我在这个过程中凭借我得到了正确答案而自负的认为自己是正确的,拒绝别人的质疑。这让我觉得可怕,不过是一个小问题就让我自满而听不进去别人的批评,就让我迷住了眼睛看不到自己的问题,就让我停止思考而想当然的认为自己是正确的,甚至认为别人没有跟上我的思路才无法这么快的得到答案,就让我拒绝、排斥、反击批评我的观点。这太可怕了,这是dictator的做法!如果将来在更重大的问题上发生这样的过错,结果一定更可怕!不是道歉所能弥补的!
我该如何避免这样的问题再次发生。我要做到:1、首先要认识到,自己不过是一个普通人,不会应为做出任何成绩而变的不是我自己,在我的周围有着无数比我强的人,要时刻提醒自己不能骄傲;2、听到反对声时,不要不假思索立刻反驳,而是要听完别人的观点,并确实的想象别人说的有没有道理;3、如果实在无法平静下,说:等一下我要去一下bath room,然后 have a walk,总之chilling down避免争吵!
还有什么好方法避免这种错误么?留言告诉我吧!
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我就是喜欢纽约时报
其实我不关心这个人真实面目如何,无论这个人人品怎样,都不能让对他的不公平审判变得公平。这在纽约时报去年获得普利策奖的报道中也有体现。
还有一个问题,在非典期间,在重庆旱灾期间,媒体都没有得到我的信任,事实上我最喜欢的报纸是纽约时报,最喜欢的杂志是时代周刊,除了我喜欢上这些网站看 新闻受到影响之外,还有一个原因:国内的报纸杂志太让我失望,而国外的不会。以前国内有个报纸叫南方周末,让我产生了好感,可惜死掉了。现在的南方周末报 道质量稳定在60分及格线以下。最讨厌的是参考消息,虽然号称是国外报纸的摘要,但是它加上去的题目带有明显的主管偏见,让我一看就不想读内容。我不喜欢 每一句话都带有记者明显主观偏见的新闻媒体,我不喜欢报道不像新闻的颂词的新闻媒体,不喜欢报道过让人民被蒙蔽的内容而且从来没有反思的新闻媒体,我不喜 欢没有公正中立立场的新闻媒体,我不喜欢没有新闻者责任感的新闻媒体,所以我不喜欢国内的新闻媒体。
什么时候国内媒体能出一个像BBC那样的严格 的职业规定手册
这个问题我想可以问问柴静这样的新闻从业者, 看看他有什么想法。这是国内我唯一觉得是新闻工作者的新闻工作者。
2006/08/26
Hi, men, take care of your money @charley

I used like X-men very much. So it's an exciting thing to hear about the X-men 3: the last stand come out. But after watching, I couldn't feel exciting at all.
After the RING things of some short guys, and the magic of a boy with a pair of glasses, no person will pay any money to watch what the computer can draw anymore. People need some elements else, like Kong Fu. And after all there's one thing should never be forgot and can always let audience feel be moved, and that thing is LOVE. You can play some new tricks such as two men love in BROKE BACK, or alien's love in ROSWELL, or hero love in SUPERMAN.
But unfortunately the X-men forget the love, after 2 hours' unbelievable CG, and wonderful pictures, I can feel nothing. When the X-men show there power to destroy hundreds of soldiers, the money is poured out on the computers, I can feel nothing. After the end of the movie, I stand up and suddenly realize what is the LAST STANDING mean, I will never stand again for a movie pay lots of money on the computer graphic but forget the writers, fortget love, forget to move the audience .
2006/08/25
Another news from NYTIMES
A Chinese court sentenced an advocate of peasants' rights to more than four years in prison on Thursday after a trial his lawyers say was a sham.
On the eve of Mr. Chen's trial last week, three of his lawyers were accused by local thugs of stealing property. The lawyers were then detained by the local police and one of them was held until after Mr. Chen's trial had ended.
When his other lawyers complained to the court that the harassment made a mockery of the legal proceedings and called for a delay, the court appointed new defense lawyers for Mr. Chen and proceeded with the trial.
The appointed defense lawyers did not contest any of the charges against Mr. Chen and did not call any witnesses on his behalf.
"I believe the court officials there have lost their minds," said Xu Zhiyong, one of Mr. Chen's chosen lawyers, who was prevented from attending his trial by the local police. "The entire process was illegal."
使用邮件更新多个blog@charley
2006/08/24
2006/08/22
The incredible happiness!
happiness this night, cause I have a party which is incredible for me. I mean
there are so many people coming, and so wonderful food, I feel drunked and
incredible happy.
I am so lucky to have so many friends, thank you guys to make the incredible night
tonight!
2006/08/21
10 Questions for Francis Ford Coppola
Director Francis Ford Coppola said,I still have the feelings of a 16-year-old. All my life I wanted to be a writer.I'm thinking now of an original story I would love to be able to pull off for my
own self-respect. Choice is a theme I want to look at. When I was younger, it was regulated--you're gonna get through school, get married, have kids. Now there's a million variations on that. I think I'm more interested in personal questions.
大导演科波拉的专访,见这里。
Tomorrow, birthday
I called my parents after getting the order of connecting more, or something like
that,
by the short messge through the cell phone of my dad.
that's not a bad thing, I like to call them,
but the bad thing is yesterday is exactly the day that the daughter of a friend of
my mum will hold the marriage party the next day, that means today,
No suprise, I was getting some brain storm about girl things in the next 1 hour
and 7 minutes,
God, totally disaster that mankind couldn't prevent.
I don't wanna talk about it anymore.
After all, tomorrow is my birthday,
I have a perfect plan,
I will get up very late,
Go to the museum to enjoy the exhibition after breakfast,
then junk food at noon, at the KFC across the street,
a movie afternoon plus a party at sunset time,
then go back to my dormitory,
have a peaceful night.
I cann't stop smiling now.
Good luck to every one who is reading this :)
2006/08/19
想看广告么:)
再一次申明只要点一次意思一下就行了,点多了会被判为欺诈!
2006/08/18
七日谈
现在游泳耐力严重下降,游250m就直喘气,
下次一定要游500米再休息,然后再游500m,
而且我总是学不会蝶泳,怎么回事呢???
SUN
今天看走进大唐国宝展,结果看了一般被boss一个电话叫了回来,
开会!
幸亏我有会员卡,看展览不需要花钱,下次再看吧!
不过还是不爽,嗯!
MON
这两天参考消息报上铺天盖地的涌现了一些赞扬卡斯特罗的文章,
不就是一个专制独裁者的政权交替么,至于这样伪装么?
谁也没想着联系你,你干嘛紧张的赶紧给人家唱颂歌,
好像这样大家就觉得你也跟着光荣了似的,
其实两回事,还有此地无银三百两的嫌疑。
人民其实很好骗的,只要动用一点国家机器就行了,
你看Iraq,当年民主选举,全国人民全部投票选取萨达姆当总统。
不过人民也很老奸巨滑的,很难骗,只要国家机器崩溃就改头换面了,
后来这些人还不是把萨达姆的塑像推倒,还在上面踩了好几脚!
所以,谁也别蒙谁了,大家都奔着利益去就行了,
你爱怎么dictator都无所谓,只要让人民过上好日子就行了,
当然不能让人民有可乘之机,否则就落的萨达姆的下场,
而且再怎么骗都没用,只要时机成熟结果都一样!
TUES
In life, the right man to love hardly ever comes at the right time for loving.
Nature does not often anser a call for love, until the caller is tired of calling.
这是TESS of the d'Urbervilles里的话,
忽然觉得自己很cici,哈哈。
WED
2006年8月1日参考消息第14版引用澳大利亚海外华人网7月7日报道:
在美华人保姆走俏,请会讲普通话又会英文的保姆要排队,
年薪起码7万刀,堪比白领。
看了这消息感觉自己挺有前途的,是在不行去美国当保姆去,
我建议shqwang也辍学算了,
读什么书,直接当保姆去,哈哈
我是不是说话太mean了???
THURS
今天一个同学给我讲了一个让我吃不下饭的故事:
一个人携妻到香港旅游,shopping时妻子到试衣间试衣服,
没想到一去不会。在等了很久以后,他报了警,警察搜索了店铺一无所获。
这位先生孤身返回大陆,并在其后多次去香港寻找妻子,终无结果。
就在又一次来到香港,而没有找到妻子音讯的情况下,
这位先生极度绝望,想要放弃,
他来到了一个酒吧,在酒吧里发现一个人,
她的一只手&半个胳膊被砍掉了,
双眼被戳瞎,舌头也被割掉了,此人便是这位先生的妻子!
这位先生将妻子带回了大陆,但妻子的精神已经崩溃了。
原来,他的妻子被一些虐人组织绑架,
这些组织专门对活人进行残害,从中获取乐趣。
虐猫这类事情他们已经玩儿腻了,
于是就对人下手,活生生的砍掉他们的肢体,
挖掉眼睛,割掉舌头,从中获得快感!
听完这个故事我决定:
1、暂时少出校门。
2、出门就往人堆里扎。
3、今晚回宿舍练习喊救命。
FRI
我下载了一个新的widget,
不过怎么也装不上,
不知道是这个widget插件有问题,
还是yahoo的widget本身不好用。
其实我挺像买个mac,特别是apple网站上介绍的新mac系统如此诱人!






